Life’s Transitions Can Be Overwhelming.
Divorce feels like an uphill battle. Relationships lose their spark. Starting over at 40 feels daunting. Without support, these challenges can leave you feeling stuck, lost, or defeated.
We understand how hard it is to move forward when life feels uncertain.
Guiding You Toward Your
Best Future
With our proven approach, we help you overcome life’s most difficult transitions
Mediation Services
When divorce feels like the only path forward, our mediation services create a space for respectful dialogue, understanding, and fair solutions. We help you navigate legal and emotional complexities with calm and clarity, ensuring that both parties can move forward with dignity. Our process includes personalized consultations, step-by-step guidance, and resources to make co-parenting smoother and less stressful.
Marriage
Revival
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
A guided approach to reviving your marriage or choosing a peaceful path forward. We offer tools and guidance to reignite connection and rebuild trust. Whether communication has broken down or life’s stressors have created distance, our tailored strategies are designed to build a stronger foundation for the future. Through workshops, one-on-one sessions, and online courses you’ll find renewed hope and purpose in your partnership.
Empowerment Over 40
Turning 40 is just the beginning of an incredible new chapter. Our empowerment services are designed to help you embrace this milestone with confidence, clarity, and purpose. From the Saddle Up Live podcast to personalized resources, you’ll find inspiration and practical steps to reclaim your joy, set meaningful goals, and live your best life. Whether you’re starting a new career, redefining your identity, or simply searching for more fulfillment, we’re here to support your journey.
Experience You Can Rely On
Lesa brings a wealth of experience, compassion, and a results-driven approach to every client interaction. Her background includes:
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Over a decade of mediation expertise: Helping families and individuals navigate co-parenting and divorce
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Marriage coaching with proven success: Guiding couples to rediscover connection and rebuild trust through actionable strategies. Along with a marriage that has lasted over 3 decades. Â
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Empowering women over 40: Through her Saddle Up Live podcast, Lesa shares real stories, practical advice, and inspiration to help women embrace their next chapter with confidence.
Lesa’s approach is rooted in her own life journey. Having faced significant transitions herself, she understands the courage it takes to step into the unknown and create something beautiful from life’s challenges. Her mission is to empower others to find clarity, strength, and joy in every chapter of their lives.
Steps to Success:
Your Path Forward
Schedule a Consultation
with Lesa using the link to her calendar below.
Explore Tailored Solutions
See what is the best fit for your unique situation
Transform
Your Life
Take action and watch the changes unfold as you go!
Saddle Up Live:
We’re thrilled to introduce Saddle Up Live—a podcast created to inspire and empower women to thrive in every stage of life.
While Doing Divorce Different remains a trusted resource for navigating divorce—with new episodes released periodically—our primary focus has shifted to Saddle Up Live. This new podcast allows us to expand our mission, addressing a broader range of topics to empower women in all areas of life.
With weekly full-length episodes and quick Giddy Up segments, Saddle Up Live dives into subjects like faith, relationships, health, and personal growth. It’s your go-to source for the tools, stories, and encouragement needed to embrace your best life after 40.
Whether you’re here to explore divorce resources or discover fresh inspiration for your next chapter, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
Ready to saddle up?Â
Check out the latest episodes and join us on this journey to clarity, confidence, and thriving!
Episode 36:
Reignite the Spark
Episode 33:
The Roadmap to Emotional Healing
Episode 8:Â
Navigating Betrayal
Looking for Doing Divorce Different Podcast? CLICK HERE
 I listened to every single Doing Divorce Different podcast episode through a challenging mostly DIY divorce process. I gained insights from the many meditation, counseling, coparenting, real estate, financial and mindset guests, connecting with several one-on-one myself. These experts was pivotal in my creation of a complete parenting plan, working through my financial affidavit confidently, even discovering my mortgage was assumable. I felt such a boost of conviction in my steps toward bettering our family dynamic through divorce, believing wholeheartedly it was going to be better ahead for my child, myself and my ex through uncharted territory. I’ve continued to benefit from practical and effective strategies from leaning on Lesa as a divorce coach, as well. Thank you, Lesa, for being an invaluable resource for me and anyone going through divorce with peaceful intentions.
Free Guide
Divorce Essentials:
The Ultimate Guide to a Successful Split
Going through a divorce?
This guide from Lesa Koski, Divorce Mediator & Attorney, and Tami Wollensak, CDLP® gives you the tools to navigate the process with confidence.
âś… Mediation benefits & emotional wellness
âś… Co-parenting strategies & financial insights
âś… Key steps to a smoother divorce
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Inspiration for Every Step
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